Deuteronomy 24:16 "Fathers shall not be put to death for their children, nor children put to death for their fathers; each is to die for his own sin."

We are all responsible for our own sin. We must not blame or condemn anyone for our actions. Your actions are chosen by you. If someone gets angry and hits you, you must have grace (be better than that way of communicating). Let God (with the holy spirit) take over your body and heart so you can respond not in a selfish way, such as an eye-for-an-eye. You are mandated to a higher standard, a Godly standard, a holy standard, and you will be blessed and strengthened in the Lord for following his will.